My boss gave me a quick call a little while ago because I sent out an email to the local staff. I went to rinse out my coffee pot and clean my coffee cup but couldn’t because our office shared sink was full of dirty dishes. Dirty dishes that had been sitting around for two days. He was apparently a bit peeved cuz my email said something like …
“We don’t have a maid and your mother doesn’t work here; so clean out your dirty dishes out of the sink now or just know that the person who threw them into the trash bin was me. Others need to use the sink too.”
It’s amazing how fast it was emptied.
He said I was too callous. I told him I was disappointed that I actually didn’t get to throw anything away.
He said I needed to be more understanding. I said that there was absolutely no misunderstanding. People were being pigs and they were called out for it. Then I asked why he was defending pigs.
He said he was considering a reprimand. I said that I’d be sure to include my Congressman in my reply back to him and that I was sure that my Congressman would be more than thrilled by an action of this sort by him considering that VA management has this great reputation with the US Congress lately. Then I asked him if he wanted to be known by the Congress for defending pigs.
I haven’t heard a response back. I wonder if I was a little over the top? I told you I was a bit irritable today.
No Miss C. “Irritable” not “grumpy“.
He is considering a reprimand? Stop!
Oh, you could have agreed and said “Yes, I think those leaving dirty dishes in the WORK PLACE sink should be reprimanded. Need any help?”
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I think it’s pretty awesome of you to stand up and say things the way they ought to be said! Well done!!
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I’m sure I lost points come eval time.
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LMAO! Give ’em hell!
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we try
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Sounds pretty fair to me 🙂 Good on you!
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I have a vision of you doing a haka to convince them to keep it all spic and span
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Yup … I have done something along those lines 😉
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LOL
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🙂
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😂 may be he’s the biggest pig of them all
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could be but he’s in another city so he’s his wife’s problem if he’s a pig.
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It’s funny what you wrote is like what I write to my kids . If you don’t clean up it goes in the bin 😂
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you’re a toughie.
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That I am need to train them when they are young so they don’t turn out to be pigs when they grow up 😂
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I’m sure you laid the law down with them when needed
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I see your email as direct and to the point. Some people can’t handle the truth! You did good. Kudos!!
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a thumbs up from a Texas lady?? wow!
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Yep, in Texas we would’ve said “I ain’t yo mama and you weren’t raised in a barn. Now hurry up, get in the kitchen, and clean your dishes up!”
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yeh, but in my experience you ladies have that “swag” that goes with a statement like that. They’d just look at me like I had corn growing out of my ears if I said that. so I did the NCO thing instead.
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It’s called being considerate and thoughtful of others. You just reminded them that it’s necessary! 😉
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that’s my argument and I like yours better.
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😊
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Grumpy, irritable, it’s all the same, but I love ya anyway ♥♥♥ I give you credit. I would have just thrown them away, no email warning.
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oh, I gotta do that “Fair Warning” thingee.
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Well you are a better man than me LOLOLOL 😉
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OMG! here goes that “man rumor” once again.
*sigh
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Ahahaha, hey I like to give people something to talk about 😉
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uh huh
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Hm, do you think you hit a sore spot with your boss? Maybe half the dishes were his?
Maybe next time you could try something along the lines of
My dear co-workers
It really bothers me that I have to approach you with such a profane matter, but your showing respect to those who care about washing their dishes by keeping the kitchen and the sink clean would be appreciated beyond imagination
Sincerely yours,
(woah! this is difficult in English! Along those lines.)
Not sure this would work any better than your more direct approach ^^
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say in German and we’ll let them figure out the translation.
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😀 Then you’ll have a gathering in the kitchen and they’ll be too busy to wash their dishes.
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they will more than likely be standing around wondering what the hell it said and getting nothing done.
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Well, that’s what they’re paid for, aren’t they *duckandrun*
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that may more than likely be their most productive part of the day.
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😸
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I use to threaten to put my kids dirty dishes in their beds if they didn’t clean up after themselves.
It worked.
Leslie
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I just grounded my girls and then took the phone away from them. that always got their attention.
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That would work.
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and it did
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😉
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😉
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“pling”
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Awww..your BOSS is also (apparently) wearing his crabby pants today..because EVERY office in America and the world has that same problem you pointed out. In my last office kitchen there was a laminated sign stuck over the sink that read generally the same things you put in your email. The office OCDer (the office manager as she liked to be called) WOULD throw your dirty dishes away too…regardless if they were expensive Pyrex which you were soaking in there to take the grunge from your microwaved mac & cheese off of. She had a thing about maids and mothers … I’m with you actually. I HATE the smell of three day old tuna fish and moldly tupperware…
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it sure motivated someone or some people.
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*gives you a standing ovation.*
people ARE pigs and need to be called out on it.
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I guess I don’t get a “Friendship Award” for this week. no Gold Star neither for my fridge.
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You get a gold star in my book for being honest and truthful.
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yeh but I was REALLY looking forward to throwing stuff away. I’m a bit disappointed.
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Come to my house. Have a ball.
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that’s not as much fun as in the office.
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I know. But you can still throw things away that are not yours.
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I’ll start with the Mustang. of course that will mean having to take it somewhere to be disposed of. I’ll have to keep it while I figure that one out. 🙂
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I have two. Which would you throw??
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One at a time
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UM….hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
worth too much money to let you do that.
Try again.
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I’ll hafta think of a better argument
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yes, you do
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